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Questions in dire search of answers

Posted on 2006.12.13 at 08:09
Name: Kris (chick)
Age and Birthday: 17-Sept.08
Location: Ft. Mac, AB
Significant Other's name: Sean
Age and Birthday: 26-Jan.12
Location: Pin Court, Que.
When did you get together: Over the summer, not exactly sure when.
How did you meet: Online- IMVU.com
How often do you see each other: Working on it.
Whats the status of your relationship (dating, engaged, married, other): dating.
Whats your favorite thing about your S.O.: His personality/everything that makes him, him
Whats the hardest part of a LDR for you: Altho distance is that distant, I will say that's probably the hardest part.
How did you find this community? What was your main reason for joining: Browsing. Looking for that little extra support to keep my sanity.
Any additional comments: I rarely ever post in this community, but when I do I'm looking for some good quality LDR help.

So I have a few comments/questions to ask, so hopefully somebody can answer them...

Sean and I have been together for a little over 5 months. And right now it seems to be harder for us to have a "non-falling-asleep" conversation. Seeing as I'm in school all day & then work on the weekends. For him he works all day, and does all the handy-work/chores everybody can't do when he gets home. I love him dearly, but I don't want our relationship to fall apart because one of us can't stay awake long enough. LOL.  (We spend 3-4 hours on the phone basically every night) 

We do the whole phone sex thing, which goes surprisingly well. But here's my question:
Is there a way to spice up our conversations?
I know it's not very broad, more or less centered, but I think a few suggestions might be nice.

I want to go to Quebec over the summer. But I have a slight problem. I'm 17, and my parents don't know about Sean and I yet. Altho I already know what my father would say. But both of my parents are totally against LDR relationships, seeing as their "un-natural". 

When's the best time to confront my parents into letting me go to Quebec?

Seeing as my parents can't entirely disagree into me being in this relationship, seeing as they moved in together after a month and their about 10-12 years apart. (Sean and I are only 9 years).

How many of you out there are or have gone through a similar situation? How did you deal with it? 

I know honesty is the best thing, but is it worth risking the privelege use of my cell phone for it?

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